The word Tantra means to expand, to weave, to liberate. In other words to feel and explore freedom and joy.
Sex is the most profound way that we humans have to experience ourselves. It is the house where we sleep and where we grow. It is our pumping center, where we express our energy. How do we connect with our inner freedom and joy? We do that by entering into a relationship with a partner who is also ecstatic.
Tantra is a sacred and spontaneous way of life. It is a mystical path that empowers you to enter into relationships of pleasure, by walking upon two realms at once, thereby combining the feminine and masculine aspects of our psychology.
Tantra was not originally designed as a marital enhancement method. Many myths and stereotypes surround the Tantric practice. These are common misconceptions that I would like to shed some light on.
Many people assume that Tantra is limited to advanced, revolutionary sexual couples. The truth is that Tantra is not only for those who find sex to be mind-blowing, but also for those who are simply in the mood for a little experimenting. Tantra exists for everyone, and it embraces everybody.
Tantra was not meant to replace any particular sex practice. It was meant to awaken the couple to the ways they are loved. Was that not just what sex was about? Or is it not so hidden that the practice is not talked about and appreciated? People seldom have the courage to bring their sexual fantasies to the bed, let alone to the altar. But with Tantra practice you become capable of living your sex life in full light.
Tantra consists of two main parts: The Tantra Girls and Tantra Boys.
The Tantra Girls are the female counterpart of the Tantra boys. Also known as awe beginners, the Tantra girls are said to be gentle and innocent by nature. They are fond of seeking and trying out new things and are receptive to change. Often, they prefer a partner who is adventurous and capable of moving beyond their comfort zone.
T Tantra Boys are the males of the species who usually manifest themselves from puberty. Tantra Boys can typically be found inesteem and lacking in confidence. Many times, they are impulsive and their preferences do not always line up with their biological sex.
Tantra offers its Girls and Boys a way to discover and accept themselves as they are, regardless of their gender. They receive education and instruction inaccepting their bodies, their emotions and their true selves. They are never told what to do, where to go, or what to think.
One wonderful resource that I highly recommend is sessions led by a Tantric Goddess named Dr.arsh embellishing her journey through being a woman. These sessions are run every Saturday morning at 9:15am inattery called, pleasantly enough, ‘The embargo Coffee.’
Schedule a time to share with her… dive into a conversation about what you learn about each other during the day, how you react and how you work through issues. Dr.arsh teaches a class called, ‘Couple’s Tantra.’ She will answer your questions about man and woman energy. She will explain how a man and a woman can balance each other, cause and effect, the opposites of each other. Dr.arsh will explain the principles of Tantra and how to use the art of love making to co-create more healthy and blissful relationships.
Read the latest gossip about the celebrity of your choice. Whisky, right? Sorry, we don’t have the space or the time to go into the juicy details, but rest assured that there are great secrets beneath the surface. What other people say they know, Dr.arsh says she knows. Whatever you choose to believe, the fact is that she knows something you don’t know. Is that Tantra? Whatever it is called, it is here to stay, and she is a part of it. She is your Hostess, your confidante, your advocate.
A great way to prove to her that you are definitely not an ‘average’ girl is to get a precursor movie going that is dedicated to the guys in the know. Go to a video store and rent something to glimpse. Know what you need to know about the sex, but be warned: She may be very offended. What you watch for is a hot Curious George or Dinner and a Movie, but know that it is all about you.
Here’s a great tip. Be the first one to open the Date deferrance. So, you’re at a pizza joint, and you really want to take a girl home. Walk up to the female sitting next to you and say, “Would you like to meet me just for sex?”